Trusting the natural flow of Energy

The most difficult time to be generous is when we ourselves are feeling poor. While some of us have experienced actually being in the red financially, there are those of us who would feel broke even if we had a million dollars in the bank. Either way, as the old adage goes, it is always in giving that we receive. Meaning that when we are living in a state of lack, the very gesture we may least want to give is the very act that could help us create the abundance that we seek. One way to practice generosity is to give energy where it is needed. Giving money to a cause or person in need is one way to give energy. Giving attention, love, or a smile to another person are other acts of giving that we can offer. After all, there are people all over the world that are hungry for love.

Sometimes when we practice generosity, we practice it conditionally. We might be expecting to "receive back" from the person to whom we gave. We might even become angry or resentful if that person doesn't reciprocate. However, trust in the natural flow of energy, and you will find yourself practicing generosity with no strings attached. This is the purest form of giving. Remember that what you send out will always come back you. Selflessly help a friend in need without expecting them to return the same favor in the same way, and know that you, too, will receive that support from the universe when you need it. Besides, while giving conditionally creates stress (because we are waiting with an invisible balance sheet to receive our due), giving unconditionally creates and generates abundance. We give freely, because we trust that there is always an unlimited supply.

Being aware of how much we are always supported by the universe is one of the keys to abundance and generosity. Consciously remember the times you've received support from expected and unexpected sources. Remember anyone who has helped you when you've needed it most, and bless all situations that come into your life for the lessons and gifts they bring you. Remember that all things given and received emanate from generosity. Giving is an act of gratitude. Plant the seeds of generosity through your acts of giving, and you will grow the fruits of abundance for yourself and those around you.

Flowering

I'm a member of the Chamber of Commerce in Danville, CA. I've been a member of the chamber for 2 years - not to promote what I do now, but for my past/previous business as a FoundValue eBay Trading Assistant.

With the chamber, I also joined a business networking group. The idea for joining a networking group is to give referrals for each other and maybe drum up some business. Within the group, there's a lawyer, realtor, designer, organizer, finance, marketing, doctor, banker, insurance, and so many other positions to name and then, there's me......

As a Spiritual Medium, Reiki Master, Tarot, and (soon-to-be) Hypnotherapist - I wasn't sure if I would get funny looks... They, of course, didn't do that. I think the people in the group are wonderful professionals - and I think that's why I stayed with the group. For some of them, they probably don't even know what Medium or Reiki is. I finally "came out" today at the morning meeting and explained my change of business and how I accepted my life calling...

WOW - What a relief that was! Although, I noticed something about my experience today.

My voice was cracking the whole time I was introducing myself. I was really nervous. My heart was pulsating so hard, I had forgotten to breathe. That 30-second introduction felt like it was 30 minutes!!

But Why??

For those who know me, they can't believe me when I tell them how shy I am. They have a hard time seeing me in that dimmed light. For some, they think that I'm warm, personable, always smiling, and very easy to talk to. They see me talk to groups of people with confidence. They see me give hugs and welcome others who are shy and quiet. I want to be like that all the time. I want to be how my friends see me all the time, anywhere and whatever the situation that I'm in.

I'm not embarrassed of who I am or what I do. I know that I can help people. I know that there are many people out there that may need me and others like me. I am doing my part to educate, enlighten, and inspire others... So, why have these feelings?

In two weeks, I am doing a 15-20 minute business highlight for the networking group. I have the intent to be clear, easy to understand, and with confidence. Maybe, the group can learn something that they're not so used to hearing or have lack of knowledge in this subject. I'm guided by my spirit guide. I know that all will be okay. Just Trust and Let Go...

For my blog readers: please send me good thoughts and energy as I work on finding ways to not be so shy. Send me an email if you have suggestions!